From Vampire Diaries To Engagement: A Complete Timeline Of Paul Wesley's Three Major Relationships
Paul Wesley: A Complete Biographical Profile
To fully appreciate the context of his relationships, here is a quick look at the man behind the famous roles.- Full Name: Paweł Tomasz Wasilewski
- Known As: Paul Wesley
- Date of Birth: July 23, 1982
- Age (as of 2025): 43
- Place of Birth: New Brunswick, New Jersey, U.S.
- Nationality: American (of Polish descent)
- Occupation: Actor, Director, Producer
- Breakthrough Role: Stefan Salvatore on The CW’s *The Vampire Diaries* (2009–2017)
- Other Notable Roles: *Fallen* (2007), *Tell Me a Story* (2018–2020), *Star Trek: Strange New Worlds* (James T. Kirk)
- Current Status: Engaged to Natalie Kuckenburg
- Previous Marriages: Torrey DeVitto (2011–2013); Ines de Ramon (2019–2024)
The Current Chapter: Natalie Kuckenburg, Paul Wesley’s Fiancée
The most recent and exciting news in Paul Wesley’s personal life is his engagement to model Natalie Kuckenburg. The couple has kept a relatively low profile, but their relationship has been steadily progressing since their first public appearance.Who is Natalie Kuckenburg?
Natalie Kuckenburg is a highly sought-after German-Brazilian fashion model.
She was born in Hanover, Germany, and holds both German and Brazilian heritage.
Her modeling career began at a young age when she was discovered in a mall in São Paulo, Brazil, at just 13 years old, quickly leading to her signing with top agencies across Europe and the US.
As of 2025, Natalie is 25 years old, making her 18 years Paul Wesley’s junior.
The Relationship Timeline and Engagement Details
Paul Wesley and Natalie Kuckenburg were first romantically linked in November 2022, shortly after his separation from his second wife, Ines de Ramon, became public.
They made their red-carpet debut in early 2023, confirming their status as a couple.
The couple announced their engagement in July 2025, a joyous event that quickly became a major headline.
While details of the proposal remain private, Natalie Kuckenburg shared the news on her social media, showcasing a stunning engagement ring.
Paul Wesley’s Two Ex-Wives: Torrey DeVitto and Ines de Ramon
Before finding love with Natalie Kuckenburg, Paul Wesley was married twice. Both marriages ended in divorce, but they remain significant parts of his dating history and topical authority, especially as they involved other well-known figures.First Marriage: Torrey DeVitto (2011–2013)
Paul Wesley’s first wife was actress Torrey DeVitto.
They initially met in 2007 on the set of the horror film *Killer Movie* and dated for four years.
The couple married in a private ceremony in New York City in April 2011.
Their relationship gained further attention when Torrey DeVitto joined the cast of *The Vampire Diaries* as Dr. Meredith Fell, allowing them to co-star on the popular series.
After two years of marriage, they announced their separation in July 2013, with a representative stating the decision was mutual.
Court documents later confirmed they had a prenuptial agreement in place, and their divorce was finalized swiftly.
Torrey DeVitto has since moved on and recently married Jared LaPine in 2024.
Second Marriage: Ines de Ramon (2019–2024)
Wesley’s second marriage was to Ines de Ramon, a successful jewelry professional.
The couple was first linked in 2018 and married in a quiet, private ceremony in 2019.
The marriage was kept out of the spotlight, but they were often seen together and shared a rescue dog named Gregory.
In September 2022, a representative confirmed the couple had separated, stating the decision was mutual and occurred several months prior.
Paul Wesley officially filed for divorce in early 2023, citing "irreconcilable differences" as the reason for the dissolution of the marriage.
The divorce was finalized in 2024.
This relationship gained massive media attention shortly after their separation when Ines de Ramon began dating Hollywood superstar Brad Pitt.
Other Significant Relationships and Entities
While his two marriages and current engagement are the main focus, Paul Wesley’s dating history also includes another notable relationship that adds to his topical authority.Phoebe Tonkin (2013–2017)
Following his divorce from Torrey DeVitto, Paul Wesley began dating Australian actress and model Phoebe Tonkin.
Tonkin also had a significant connection to *The Vampire Diaries* universe, starring as Hayley Marshall on the spin-off series *The Originals*.
Their relationship lasted approximately four years, from 2013 to 2017, making it his longest relationship outside of marriage.
The Enduring Legacy of Stefan Salvatore
The constant thread through Paul Wesley’s personal life is his career, particularly his eight-season run on *The Vampire Diaries*. The show not only launched him to global fame but also introduced him to two of his major partners: Torrey DeVitto and Phoebe Tonkin (via the spin-off). The intense fan interest in the life of "Stefan Salvatore" means every detail of his personal life, including his choice of partner, remains a high-interest topic, linking his acting success directly to his dating history.
As Paul Wesley moves forward with his engagement to Natalie Kuckenburg, fans are hopeful that the third time will be the charm for the actor. The couple represents a new, exciting chapter, moving past the high-profile divorces and marking a fresh start for the beloved star.
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